Words and Footprints

#TOTGA. We commonly define it as  “The One That Got Away” .  In layman’s term we refer to it as  “ pinagtagpo pero hindi itinadhana”  (destined to meet but not destined to be together). For some, #TOTGA can be that someone you have loved or can be the other way around. It can also be a collection of unspoken words, unexpressed feelings, and unexpected endings which may lead to questions of “ what ifs”. What if you tried more? What if you said something better? What if you did that and those? Few of a hundred fold questions left unanswered. Remains of memories how you have loved and lost someone at the same time. How things ended when you have never started. How something may have been beautiful, yet you choose to leave. Your #TOTGA may be that person whom you would have spent your life with yet the odds are against the both of you. Or maybe, your #TOTGA can be something. This may be not just for a cliché failed romantic relationship to someone. But ca